Politics in the Home: Disagreements with Friends and Family

The Topic:

After one of the most divisive elections in American history, people are wildly polarized in their politics. People are hurt and upset by the opinions and decisions of the people they consider close. It is not healthy nor productive for us as a society to shun others' ideas or write them off as monsters. Instead, we need to be able to talk with the people we care about most about the issues of our time. The real test is understanding what topics should be discussed and how to talk about them with respect for all participants. We want to be capable of holding true to our political stances without losing the people we love.

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Readings:

  1. Primary Reading - NYT Article: Link to Reading
  2. Primary Reading - Psychology Today Article: Link to Reading
  3. TED Talk on Political Discussions: Link to Reading
  4. Primary Reading - NYT Article (OPTIONAL: There are 3 podcasts that go along with this article you can listen to if you want): Link to Reading
  5. Secondary Reading - This is a long New Yorker article with a stretch in the middle that is not as relevant. If you have some time, give this a read but feel free to skip paragraphs 7-13: Link to Reading
  6. OPTIONAL: NYT video of family members discussing politics: Link to Reading
  7. OPTIONAL: Check out some quotes from Thomas Jefferson about political discussions: Link to Reading

Discussion Questions:

  1. How has the polarization of politics affected you personally?
  2. Whether you were elated or mortified by the results of the election, how do you feel about your fellow Americans?
  3. Should we ever talk about politics at home whether it be with our parents, significant others, or children?
  4. How important is a discussion on public discourse to us?
  5. What do we hope to accomplish when we enter into a political discussion with someone we love but disagree with?

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Added by Mike Lenox, February 2017.